This evening I would like to address the nation regarding one of our most frightening problems. The problem is rape.
I know this is a sensitive topic for almost every woman. Women fear to walk alone at night or to be in a park alone in daylight.
A lot of people wonder why so many men rape. To some people rape is an example of the violence of Capitalism manifesting itself in our shopping areas and neighborhoods.
Other say that men are over-stimulated by pornography and sex in the media. Because they cannot realistically live a fantasy, their rage creates nightmares for women.
Another point of view is that since men are psychologically weaker than women, men are more likely to become psychotic or feel powerless in our increasingly alienating society. Rape makes rapers feel powerful.
This is where I want to take off from.
Men, generally do not feel powerful. There is nothing for millions of young men to do. Most of our talk of empowerment is intended for females.
There is no encouragement for boys and men to feel empowered, that is, powerful and confident. Boys are preached at to not disrespect girls, not to treat them as sex objects.
Yet girls are not reprimanded for the macho behavior so many girls exhibit. Girls are told they can be as sexual as they want at whatever age they want.
Girls are never told to dress modestly to prevent boys from becoming aroused and then aggressive. They are not told to be modest so boys have respect toward women and female sexuality.
Boys are told boys are the problem. Boys are told that by nature they do not, but ought to, respect women and girls.
Since the 1980s men at work and in college have been told they are potential rapists. Well-educated influential and powerful women preach about a culture of rape.
Preaching about a culture of rape breeds fear. Women who were cautious become terrified. Women who loved to go places alone stop going.
The women who feel the most empowered in America today are those who preach this culture of rape. If there had been no feminism,, they would have built a career talking about an epidemic of burglaries or the need for a huge militrary to fight terrorists.
Their lust to make others afraid has been successful. They’ve made young women afraid to trust men, but to depend on feminists. They have established laws that a man can be accused of rape or harrassment without evidence.
Men fear being charged with a sex crime they did not committ. Men are ashamed to smile at a woman or appear confident around women.
What used to be an expression of good will becomes a sexual advance. What used to be an act of courage is no longer considered the first step in a possible romance, but something that violates a woman’s privacy. That is why men feel disempowered and weak.
It is not surprising that rape is prevalent. The revenge that feminists seek on men is reciprocated by rapists seeking revenge on women.
I want my listeners to think for a moment. Suppose there is a frustrated angry man that is eager to lash out at a woman.
Suppose he hates what is boiling in him. Suppose he decides, “I need help.”
He wants to go to a counselor to talk about his sick desire. If he approaches a counselor, the counselor will call the police.
The police will arrest him. He will have a global positioning chip implanted in him. His photograph and name will be posted on the web.
He will be known all over the nation as a potential rapist. What should be praised as an act of common sense, courage and wisdom is turned against the man. Instead of moving forward he is forced backwards.
It is important if we want rape to end, to allow men to have more power. Work offers few opportunities to be powerful or feel powerful.
The place for men to feel powerful is in the home. The behavior of children, especially sons, must become the responsibility of the father.
But fathers are in a dilemma. They are told there is violence against women. They are told a child must not be spanked or hit because that is child abuse.
How are young men going to be respectful if they are raised without a father? If they have a father, how can they not help but be disrespectful if they and their fathers know that the father will not discipline them because he fears to be arrested for child abuse?
It is acceptable to accuse a man of a rape he did not commit and to label men potential rapists, but it is not legal to hit one’s obnoxious bullying disobedient child. This is not right.
I asked earlier why men commit this horrible crime. I do not think it has happened in a vacum. In the 1960s America’s middle class and upper middle class young people claimed that there was nothing immoral about their promiscuous lifestyle.
In the 1970s homosexuals were more promiscuous than the hippies. Homosexuals claimed to have a right to be promiscuous.
A snowball effect occurred. One could be permissive with each gender. An unmarried nineteen year old woman had no qualms about having a baby she could not support. One could have a sex change operation if one felt inadequate.
It makes sense. If so many groups were proud of their selfish lifestyles, then a warped man is going to have no qualms to do what he feels like doing.
We have to change society’s attitudes towards sex and violence. Abortions should be discouraged. Promiscuity must be looked down upon. Hollywood and the media must stop glorifying sex and violence. Homosexuality should not be glorified. Bisexuals need to be labelled wish-washy. A woman’s sexual freedom must end when she expects the government to pay for her baby.
What about properly convicted rapists? Jail them. Offer them no sympathy.
Most of you have heard the phrase No name. No shame. No blame. It applies to females who want to avoid responsibility for their fetus, or who feel they might hit their babies.
We need something like this for men who are in a rage and who are willing to try to stop their rage from causing violence. There must be counselling for men so men can express their pain, their horrible thoughts, feelings and desires without being reported to the police or presented to the media.
A final thing. Though feminism as a term is not dominant among young people, the influence of feminists remains stupendous.
Every man is perceivced by feminists to be a potential rapist. Consequently every man can be accused of rape under false or flimsy allegations.
As long as feminists write family law and rape law and set the agenda of what will be taught in schools, there will be the fear and shame and rage that causes men to rape. There will also be a fear of being raped that is blown out of proportion by women who love women and men to live in fear.
Good night.
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